For invitations that read formal or black-tie optional, there is a slight degree of flexibility, but leaning heavily into absolute elegance is always the safest and most respectful approach
The most common alterations are related to the fit of a gown so, tailoring the hem length and the fit on the side seams and shoulders
Start with these go-to brands and retailers: Urban Outfitters for baby tees, vintage-style denim and grunge-inspired pieces Zara high street takes on the slip dress, wide-leg trousers and crop tops Weekday & Monki Scandinavian cool with 90s minimalist flair ASOS & Topshop affordable 90s staples from mini bags to cargo trousers Depop & Vinted for authentic vintage finds and second-hand 90s originals Reebok, Adidas Originals, Dr
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Black jeans: The most casual option, which opens the door to brown boots, desert boots, and casual leather shoes
You told her you would go no matter the cost and apparently she is taking you up on that, but please try not to let any resentment ruin your friendship